Story from Jam Press (Hot Wife) Pictured: Carol Souza. ‘I’m a hot wife – I hook up with single men through Instagram and my husband loves it' A married influencer has opened up on why she has sex with men other than her husband. Carol Souza is happily wed to Rafael Modesti – but this won’t stop her libido. The 38-year-old is a so-called “hot wife” – a term used to describe a set-up where a girlfriend or wife is allowed to sleep with other men, with her partner’s permission. It can be a turn-on for all parties. Carol is opening up on how this works – and why she’s decided to open her relationship in this way – in the hopes of encouraging others to take the plunge and enjoy sexual freedom. “It started out of curiosity and we both ended up really enjoying it,” Carol told NeedToKnow. “Since then, we’ve been exploring and fulfilling our desires. “Every encounter is unique. “So far, it’s been just about sex. “Most of the time, Rafael participates by filming me but sometimes it’s just for us [me and my lover] to keep private. “Recently, I’ve had the urge to meet single guys alone and it was incredible.” For Carol, who is from São Paulo, Brazil, it’s not so much about having sex with other people as much as it is about having freedom – something she considers “non-negotiable”. The couple – who have only recently tied the knot but have been together for eight years – have received judgement from others but they say their bond is stronger than ever. But they admit there was some jealousy at first. She said: “Since it was something new, Rafael did feel some jealousy but his desire always outweighed this. “I choose who I get involved with, discuss it with my husband and then we decide where we’ll go and what the next adventure will be. “We talk about our fantasies and realise that brings us even closer. “It’s something that happens with respect and dialogue. Carol often meets her lov